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Saya dipaksa seseorang untuk update. Aku malas! Akir2 ini aku nulisnya di notes facebook sih. Lebih banyak feedback nya. Hehehhe. Ini aja dulu yah. Ini artikel2 yang aku tulis di warta gerejaku. Jadi berbau religius. Oyi.

He and She

They've known each other for years now.
He knows everything about her,
She knows nearly nothing about Him.

She's not a bubbly person.
He looks forward talking with her,
He remember being refused.

She doesn't like going out much.
He invites her to his place many times,
He remember being declined.

She's not an optimist.
He trust her for a lot of big things in life,
He remember being doubted for it.

She's not good at catching opportunities.
He gave her chances,
He remember she wasted it.

She doesn't like being around people.
He stands close,
He remember she hide.

She's not faithful.
He saved her most of time,
although He remember being offended.

She did everything disappointed Him,
Yet He accepts her every time she knocks his door,
come with disappointment of life,
asked him for help.

They've known each other for years now.
He knows everything about her,
She knows nearly nothing about Him.

She denied Him many times,
But it seems like He always forgot that part.

Ini yang buat bulan Mei:

Instant Generation

It was just something you never planned. It was 11 p.m. You were sitting all alone in your apartment, bored, nothing to do. Suddenly your flat mate ask you to join them. They were about to go to casino. Sure, you said. I don't have anything to do anyway, you thought.

You had a great time with your friends. You drank, you made new friends, and you even won 200 dollars. Amazing, you thought. This was what I made in a week at work. And I could got it without working, while I'm having fun. What more could I wish for, better than this?

You're a product of today's generation. Nowadays, we're living an instant life. Don't have time to prepare a meal, simply go to fast-food restaurant or make your own instant food. All in minutes. Too busy to meet a friend, you chat on phone. On MSN. On every social websites available on internet.

Could you imagine what will happen if you start making relationship with God in instant way?

'I don't have time to go to church today. I'll check what are they preaching at website.'

'I don't have time to read bible and pray. I'll just do all at once in the end of the month.'

Easier.

You got so excited, you told all your friends about getting money without working hard. And a friend will tell you:

"You know what. Easy come, easy go."

That's what will happen if you get your money easily. You will spend it without consideration. You will not spend it wisely. You'll just spend it, and suddenly you ask yourself, where did my money go?

You got hard time with life, and you ask yourself, where all my friend go? Why didn't they accompany you through this situation? They did. On MSN. On every social websites available on internet.

And could you blame Him if He just turn His head away from you when you seek Him, saying;

'I don't know you. You never had time for me, why would I waste my time for you?'




Sudah ya. :p

Relationship

Hi guys! Loooooooong time no see! x)

Jadi aku udah pindah rumah. Cukup lama. Dan punya temen sekamar satu dari Mongolia satu dari Korea. This situation makes me use english everyday. Sayangnya keduanya inggrisnya gak gitu lancar. Jadi agak bosen juga nungguin kalo kadang mereka mikir satu kata laaama. Dan dalam satu kalimat bisa dua tiga kata.

Ngomong2. Ternyata di Mongolia. Seusiaku mereka sudah menikah biasanya. Dan caranya, mereka akan diperkenalkan dengan seseorang, yang dalam 3 bulan akan have sex bersama, untuk menentukan apakah they're compatible in that area. If they do, they go ahead and get married. If they don't? They pick another person. As simple as that.

Which is sangat gak bisa kumengerti. I mean. Marriage is something big, isn't it? It's a lifetime decision. It has consequences. Bagaimana bisa kamu menentukan keputusan semacam itu dalam waktu sesingkat itu, dengan penentu sedangkal sex?

Well. Forgive me kalo menurut Anda sekalian aku terlalu meremehkan sex. Aku percaya sex bukan sesuatu yang bisa diremehkan. Dan aku tau banyak pasangan yang pisah gara2 faktor sex. Jadi tentunya sex (atau ketertarikan fisik) adalah faktor yang cukup penting. Tapi, bagaimana dengan kompatibilitas karakter? Personality?

Manusia adalah makhluk yang kompleks. Kadang di depan seseorang yang kita anggap spesial, kita akan menyembunyikan sebagian dari diri kita. Kita akan memamerkan kualitas terbaik kita, namun seringkali kita lupa. Bahwa bukan keputusan yang bijaksana untuk menyembunyikan sabagian dari diri kita. Bahwa walaupun pada awalnya seseorang yang spesial itu tertarik pada kita, seiring dengan waktu bisa jadi kekecewaan melunturkan perasaannya.

Dan kalo hubungan sudah dirusak oleh ketidakjujuran, bagaimana caramu memperbaikinya?